Derealization and Depersonalization: What to Do When Reality Feels Unreal
- Moe | Scarlet Plus
- Jul 27
- 4 min read
At MindBodyPinnacle Health, we know that feeling detached from reality, or from yourself, can be deeply disturbing.
These experiences, known as derealization (the world feels unreal) or depersonalization (you feel disconnected from your thoughts or body), can stem from stress, trauma, anxiety, or neurological factors. Though sometimes transient, these symptoms can persist and interfere with daily life.
In this detailed guide, we’ll explore:
Definitions and differences between derealization and depersonalization
Common triggers and causes
Signs and how these experiences impact functioning
Evidence-based treatments and self-care techniques
How MindBodyPinnacle integrates care for these symptoms
Practical tools to ground yourself in the moment
When to reach out for professional intervention
Page Contents:
1. What Are Derealization and Depersonalization?
Derealization refers to feeling that the world around you is unreal, dreamlike, distant, or distorted.
Depersonalization involves feeling detached from your own thoughts, emotions, or body, often experiencing yourself as if you're “observing from outside.”
Though separable, these often co-occur and are categorized under Depersonalization–Derealization Disorder when persistent and distressing for at least one month, per DSM‑5 criteria.
Many people have brief episodes under stress or during panic attacks; persistent and impairing experiences may indicate a deeper condition.
2. Causes & Common Triggers
A. Anxiety and Panic Disorders
Intense anxiety, especially acute panic, can trigger depersonalization or derealization as a dissociative defense, especially when stress overwhelms the brain’s threat response systems.
B. Trauma & PTSD
Both acute trauma and long‑term stress can predispose someone to dissociative symptoms as a protective emotional defense, creating psychic distance to avoid overwhelming feelings.
C. Extreme Fatigue or Sleep Deprivation
Chronic sleep deprivation or cognitive fatigue disrupts neural processing—and sometimes triggers perceptual distortions or emotional detachment.
D. Substance Use & Physiological Causes
Certain drugs, neurological conditions (e.g. migraines, epilepsy), or metabolic imbalances can lead to transient dissociation or perceptual shifts.
3. How It Feels, and How It Affects You
Physical & Emotional Signs:
A sense of foggy or glasslike vision
Numbing or detachment from your body
Time distortion or the feeling of being unreal
Cognitive Patterns:
Racing or scattered thoughts, difficulty concentrating
Thoughts like “Am I even real?” or “Everything seems fake”
Behavioral & Functional Impact:
Difficulty staying present in conversations or tasks
Avoiding activities you once enjoyed due to disconnection
Increased anxiety or panic in social settings, especially if symptoms appear suddenly
These experiences can be distressing and often lead to misunderstanding or self-blame; especially if there’s no visible physical cause.
4. Evidence-Based Treatments & Interventions
A. Grounding & Mindfulness Therapies
Techniques like “5-4-3-2-1 grounding” (noticing sensory details) and mindful breathing help anchor you in the present. These techniques reduce distress by shifting attention to sensory reality.
B. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT helps reframe catastrophic or dissociative thought loops, challenging beliefs such as “I’m losing my mind” or “I’ll never feel normal again,” and replacing them with calming logic and self-soothing rationales.
C. EMDR and Trauma‑Focused Therapy
In cases linked to trauma, therapies like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) help process distressing memories that trigger dissociation.
D. Medication Support
While no medication specifically treats derealization, SSRIs or SNRIs can address co-occurring anxiety, depression, or OCD symptoms. If panic or PTSD is involved, stabilizing mood and anxiety pharmacologically may reduce dissociation episodes.
E. Psychoeducation & Support Groups
Understanding that these symptoms are not psychosis, but rather physiological and stress-driven, helps reduce fear and increases coping confidence.
5. How MindBodyPinnacle Supports Clients with
Dissociative Experiences
A. Thorough Evaluation
We assess for underlying PTSD, anxiety, panic, sleep disorders, substance factors, and medical contributors.
B. Personalized Care Plans
We combine CBT, mindfulness training, psychoeducation, and trauma-informed therapy with optional medication when clinically indicated.
C. Skill Development & Self-Regulation
Clients practice in-session and home-based grounding routines, self-monitoring of symptoms, and stress-management resilience tools.
D. Coordination and Follow‑Up
We arrange ongoing support, including sleep hygiene plans, lifestyle tracking, and telepsychiatry check-ins when needed.
E. Holistic Integration
Our services span therapy, psychiatry, nutrition, and wellness coaching to reinforce wellbeing across mind and body.
6. Practical Tools to Ground Yourself in the Moment
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding: Name 5 things you see, 4 you feel, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste.
Double‑Tap Technique: Touch your own arm lightly, say “I am here,” and describe what you feel physically.
Box Breathing: Inhale for 4, hold 4, exhale 4, pause 4—repeat to regulate your nervous system.
Movement Anchors: Walk slowly and mindfully, focusing on each step’s sensation.
Cold‑Water Reset: Splash cold water on your face or hold ice to your wrist to activate the parasympathetic response.
Reality Affirmations: Quietly repeat factual statements: “The ground feels solid. I feel my breath.”
Routine Check‑Ins: Pause mid‑day to note physical sensations—eat, stretch, walk or journal to reconnect.
Conclusion
Feeling detached from yourself or the world around you can be frightening, but such experiences are rooted in brain physiology and stress responses; not psychosis.
With structured grounding techniques, targeted therapy, and thoughtful self-care, many people learn to reclaim presence and reclaim their sense of reality.
At MindBodyPinnacle Health, we integrate clinical understanding with compassion, tailoring care to emotional and physical restoration for individuals navigating these challenging symptoms.
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Want to learn more? Check out:
Sierra, M., Berrios, G. E. (1998). "Depersonalization: neurochemical and neurophysiological perspectives." Psychiatry Research
Hunter, E. C. M., et al. (2003). "Clinical features of depersonalization: A systematic review." Comprehensive Psychiatry
Stanford Medicine. “Grounding Techniques for Dissociative Symptoms,” https://med.stanford.edu
Mayo Clinic. “Depersonalization/Derealization Disorder—Symptoms & Causes,”
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